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I have come to realize that I would rather go on low pressure dates than to go on dates that are more than $30. I know that there are some people that don't really like coffee dates and like to go to nice fancy restaurants but that's not really me and then I feel guilty when I realize that I don't want to go on another date with that person because they paid for me to go out to eat with them. It feels more of authentic way to get to know someone and less pressure. I really want to get to know the person before I get involved with them but if they move faster than what I'm comfortable with I just get extremely uncomfortable because I tell them up front about it. How do you guys feel about dates that aren't expensive on the first date? Do you feel the same way as I do or do you feel differently?